Can’t Lose for Winning

B-MORE – My boy, Andy, graduated from West Virginia and he told us how crazy the partying was there so we decided to check it out…plus it’s always good to get out of town. So Andy, Kenny, Joey, and I decided to drive up Sunday and rent a hotel for the night. We arrived at our hotel around 6pm and then headed straight to the bar for Happy Hour. Some of Andy’s friends, including his friend Kimmy and her man, met us out around 8 or 9pm so we just stayed at the bar eating and drinking while we were waiting for everybody. Anyway, we stayed there drinking and talking and waiting for more people to come until around 10pm and then we headed for the next bar.

Andy’s friends were going to some bar but Andy wanted to go somewhere else first and then meet up with them later. His friends left and Andy, Kenny, Joey, and I went to this bar around the corner. The line was ridiculous and it wasn’t moving so we decided to just head to the bar where all of Andy’s friends were and hang out with them. On the walk, Joey stopped to talk to a group of girls and I stopped to talk on the phone, but Andy and Kenny tried to get into the bar. The bouncer was giving Andy a hard time and questioning his id, so Andy just started laughing at him. Once this happened, the bouncer told Andy that he was visibly intoxicated and wouldn’t let him in. Joey and I tried to talk the bouncer into letting him in, but he wasn’t having it, so we had to walk 10 blocks back to the original bar that we were at. By now, that bar had a long line as did the other bar that we went to earlier. Andy and Kenny just wanted to drink so they left to find another bar, but Joey and I heard music coming out of the bar so we decided to wait in the line. After about waiting in line about 5 minutes and it not moving an inch, Joey and I decided to head back to the bar that Andy got kicked out of because all of his friends were there so we would at least know people.

The bouncer scrutinized our ids, but he let us in. As soon as we walked in, Kimmy was standing there. She asked us where Andy and Kenny were and when told her about Andy not getting in, she just laughed. Everybody else was sitting outside in the back of the bar so we stopped at the bar to get a few drinks before we joined them. While I was at the bar trying to order, Joey and I were talking to Kimmy. She was cool and as usual, I was my normal charming self. The bartender took forever, but we eventually got our drinks, took a few shots, and then headed outside to join everybody. There were like 6 or 7 people at one end of the table and Joey, Kimmy, Kimmy’s man, and me were at the other end. I was sitting next to Kimmy, Joey was sitting across from us and Kimmy’s man was sitting at the head of the table, in between Kimmy and Joey. We were all just sitting and talking when all of sudden, it felt like Kimmy rub against my leg….no big deal, probably an accident. I just ignored it and went back to talking. Next thing I know, it happened again…this can’t be a coincidence, but it has to be because her man is right there. All of a sudden, her hand was permanently on my leg. It was a little awkward because her man was right there and might notice, but I can’t say that I was upset by it. Anyway, this went on for awhile until Kimmy got up to go to the bathroom. A few minutes after she left, I realized that I needed to use the bathroom too, so I got up to find it. I was honestly looking for the men’s bathroom when I ran into Kimmy in line for the women’s bathroom. We started talking and then next thing I know, we’re making out. I mean, it’s not even like we tried to hide or anything, so if her man had gotten up to use the bathroom or go to the bar, he would have seen us. This went on for awhile and then I went to the bathroom. When I came back out, she was still in line so we kissed a little more. After being gone over half an hour, I finally returned to the table. A few minutes later, Kimmy returned to the table…Joey and Kimmy’s man were oblivious. She went back to rubbing on my leg, but then it started raining. Once that happened, we all went inside. Joey, Kimmy, Kimmy’s man, and I were standing around talking for awhile, when Kimmy decided to go to the bar to get someone a drink. I went with her to the bar. Once we got to the bar, we started kissing again. This was little scarier than before because whereas everybody was previously outside, now everybody, including her man, was like 10 to 15 feet away. True, it was crowded and there were a lot of people between us, but it was still risky. Anyway, we returned like 15 minutes later…Joey and her man were still oblivious. After that nothing else really happened. We all talked for awhile and then Kimmy and her man left around 1am. I gave Kimmy a hug goodbye, she gave me a kiss on the neck and that was it.

Now that you know the story, I’ll give you some details. I honestly don’t know how this happened. I guess that I was flirting with Kimmy, but that’s just the way that I usually talk to most girls. I mean, at the beginning of the night, I seriously had no intentions of hooking up with her. It wasn’t until she started rubbing on my leg that it entered my mind. Then, not only was I making out with Kimmy, but Joey was trying. I guess that he kept trying to get her to kiss him, but she said that she couldn’t because her boyfriend was around…interesting. Speaking of her boyfriend, they have been together for 3 years. He loved me and Joey. He kept telling us how cool we were and that next time that we come up, he definitely wanted to hang out. He was so clueless. I do sort of feel bad for the guy, but I don’t feel guilty for what I did to him. If he was one of my boys, then I would feel guilty, but since I don’t know him, it doesn’t really bother me. I mean, true I hooked up with his girlfriend, but I’m not seeing anybody and I have no obligation to him, so I didn’t really do anything wrong…she’s the one that cheated. I admit it’s not the strongest argument, but it helps me sleep at night.